The need to win is often so strong that small disagreements can blow up into bitter and futile quarrels. What fierce arguments we are prepared to enter into, just in order to prove that we are right! People who feel they are no good quickly think they are at fault; then they begin to feel empty, even dead inside. Sometimes people in this position are ready to cheat, to lie, and to use all kinds of unjust and
illegal methods in order to prove that they exist, to exercise power and influence and to be recognized and held in high esteem.
Jean Vanier, Our Journey
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